This Love

He almost always has a new woman lined up; you're dumped for somebody else

...Mosdt men who leave do so because they're involved withsomeone new. Very rarely does a man go from something to nothing.

He ended all that, in a way that was hurtful, fairly unexpected and bsolutely unequivocal.

The explanation, such as it was, may have been that he wasn't sure he wanted to be married any more, that he wasnt ready to get married, that he didnt think you two were right for each other, that he was in love with someone else, that there absolutly wasnt someone else but he hust had to have space, that you had both had changed and there was no sense in continuing, or any variation of the above.

You know, you and I don't have that much in common

He encourages your private pursuits. ...He wants you to start feeling as separate from him ashe is feeling from you.

Maybe one or some of these signs and signals register in your consciousness, and you feel damn sure there's more to this than meets the eye. Of course you will work it out, you think because the two of you together have been the center of everything. Then one day he says: I can't go on with this any longer.
I'm not happy.
This isn't working, We're very different people.
I want out.

The above is from a book i'm reading called Dumped. Its funny reading all of that, some of it almost word for word things he said to me, as if he read the book first to figure out how to dump me.

I'm just starting the book, but I bet its going to be very helpful reading to me in the next few chapters.

I had a great day today. I was smiling and feeling great about myself. And tonight (a saturday night), I'm gonna sit here at home open a bottle of wine and read my new book. Uh.. that is til i got to the line that says "Don't drink alone".

Maybe I will just read the book.